The Winning Mindset

The winning mindset – habits of consistent top performers

The Winning Mindset Interestingly, my experience is that a so-called ‘winning mindset’ is not so much about knowing how to win—all top athletes do—but rather about how well they manage and bounce back from loss. A practical example comes from my experience working with Gukesh D in preparation for the World Chess Championship final. After […]

The Art of Staying Cool Under Pressure

The art of staying cool under pressure – composure in performance

By Paddy Upton Why do some people succeed more often than others? We know it’s seldom about sheer talent alone. In my time working with elite performers across sports and business, there are some common factors that keep coming up.  These four stand out. Successful people prepare excellently. They don’t skim through the syllabus; they study […]

The Mental Diet: Choosing What Feeds Your Mind

The mental diet – choosing what truly feeds your mind

A few decades ago, the biggest challenge for most people was lack of access to information. Today, the challenge is almost the opposite—there’s too much information. Just like our shift from a world where food scarcity was a major issue to one where obesity is a dominant health concern, our mental diets have followed a […]

What Truly Sets the Best Apart

What sets the best apart – key traits of elite performers

Confidence and arrogance often get mistaken for each other. From the outside, they can look remarkably similar—strong-willed, unwavering, even bold. But spend enough time around high performers, and the distinction becomes glaringly obvious. One fuels growth and elite performance; the other stifles it. Confidence is Earned, Arrogance is Assumed When Virat Kohli walks onto the […]

The Hidden Cost of Fear in High Performance

The hidden cost of fear in high performance environments

Over my years coaching elite athletes, I’d confidently say that the three most common mental obstacles to success are i) an inability to move on from past mistakes, ii) pressure to succeed and iii) fear of something going wrong at some point in the future. Fear of failure. Fear of injury. Fear of judgment. Fear […]

Lessons from the 2024 Olympics

Lessons from the 2024 Olympics – insights into elite performance

For 25 years, one experience sat firmly on my bucket list: stepping into an Olympic Village to live among 15,000 of the world’s best athletes, coaches, and sports scientists In 2024, that dream became a reality. I walked into the Paris Olympics alongside the Indian men’s hockey team, knowing that what lay ahead would push […]

The Dark Side of Productivity

The dark side of productivity – when performance goes too far

When High Performance Becomes Toxic  High performance is sought after and celebrated in the corporate world, but there’s a hidden danger when productivity becomes an obsession. When the relentless pursuit of results pushes teams too far, the line between excellence and toxicity can blur. In a toxic productivity culture, the focus shifts from quality to […]

What differentiates high performing teams from the rest?

What differentiates high-performing teams from the rest

Nearly every pro sports team and business aspires to be a ‘high performance’ team, but most fall short. Here’s one perspective on what sets those rare elite groups apart. It’s well known that the world of sports and business is complex, ever-changing, exciting, and sometimes intimidating. Like sailing across the ocean, it’s far from the […]

Breakfast buffet of a different kind.

Breakfast buffet of a different kind – mindset and reflection

Seven useful reminders. I never thought breakfast at the Taj, Fisherman’s Cove in Chennai would dish up such a smorgasbord – that had nothing to do with food. It started as just another hotel buffet – I’ve averaged about 180 of them per year for the last 17 years of my professional life. This one […]

6 Lessons From Shovelling Shit

On Christmas weekend, I visited my sister and parents, who I hadn’t seen for a number of months due to touring with the Indian cricket team. I had asked my sister, Nicky to arrange some different or interesting activities around the Stellenbosch/Paarl area where she lives. For the first morning‘s activity, I was told me […]

The invaluable lesson of a leftover pizza

The invaluable lesson of a leftover pizza

‘Exposure’ was one of the significant events that rolled into town with the covid circus. The carpet was pulled back to expose things like pre-existing leadership ineptitude, business weaknesses and relationship flaws. Unhappy employees became unhappier. Unhappy couples separated. Unhappy clients cut ties. The character of political leadership was revealed. Two areas of exposure that […]

The story of an A-Game

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It was almost exactly a year ago that I was struck with one of those aha-moments in life! It happened at the beginning of lockdown and during a mental coaching conversation with the captain of a national sports team. For the umpteenth time in my life, I found myself discussing the concept of our ‘A-game’.